"Train up a child in the way should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it." Prov. 22:6 This is what I live by...not just from a Biblical standpoint but from a FATHER standpoint. If my children have a good role model on how a father should nurture his children then they will (girls) marry someone they feel would be a good father to their children, or (boys) strive to a be good father to their own children one day.